I have spoken to people with this kind of mindset...
Bob is addicted to porn. He has never had sex - he believes that sex is to be reserved for marriage. Howver his struggle with porn has been so bad that he now thinks if he gets a chance to "taste" sex it will help him get rid of porn. So he goes on to try to have sex in order to cure his porn addiction.
No.. It won't make him stop. Sex is not a solution to addiction.
Rather the sex is the manifestation of his addiction and flesh weakness.
The solution to addiction is self discipline (which is not easy though).... As he had the time to easily get addicted to porn for many days so he had to find for himself many days to be self disciplined and that will help.
Similar thing happened to a friend who thought having sex will stop her from masturbation. But it was to no avail UNTIL SHE DETERMINED WITH SELF DISCIPLINE and now she is free.
Having sex to cure Porn and masturbation addiction is like increasing your burden. Because the sex in that context will increase your addiction or trouble.
It will even add another issue by doing it frequently. But only when you intentionally decide to suffer pain by avoiding to indulge in when the urge comes through PRAYER
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